I Am Not A Perfect Father

(by Mike Blanding, father of Mateo)

​I am not a perfect father. I never have been. I never will be.

There’s so much that I would have done differently had I known that Mateo would only be with us for seven short months. ​There’s so much that I would have done differently had I known that March 1st, 2020 would be my last time carrying my living son. There’s so much that I would have done differently had I known that March 2nd, 2020 would be my last time looking into his conscious, open eyes. But I did not know. I could not have known. So I did not do anything differently. And now my precious little Mateo is gone.

​I am not a perfect father. I never have been. I never will be. But I know a perfect Father. And He, too, knows what it feels like to lose a son. And in this thought my soul finds the deepest comfort.

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The #MightyMateo Legacy lives on.
Our little Mateo was highly involved in our efforts to fight online sex trafficking of children in the Philippines during his seven months of life. We believe that he'd love for us to continue this legacy.

Read more here.

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